Amazing love between father and daughter..

Found this amazing amazing video while browsing the facebook (yep..just browse around! no mood to put any update on it anyway)...

Pals...look at the daughter...so naive and unpretentious..singing her heart out loud under her pj's..with sloppy just-get-up-from-bed looks..very pure and innocent..she's so sincere with her singing and doesn't even care whether her pitch and tone is at the right place or not...she just having fun singing with her dad and she's enjoying every moments of it...

Falling in love with this video, so i googled bout this duo..and i found this link..they actually have their own official website..reading the story making me realize that the future is not for us to tell..we may get what we least expected..all we need to do in this whole beautiful world is just to survive the life in the most honest way...what goes around, do comes around..if we are doing all good deeds with sincere, good things will come to us eventually...all we need to do is to be patient...

Do check out their other videos..they sang lotsa other hot songs by famous artistes..its all over the youtube with millions of viewers..great great videos..

oh, btw, i never heard the song..but its kinda catchy..so here's the original version..

"home is whenever im with you!" - 

deep, beautiful, meaningful, emotionally affected, strong sentence..it's everything!

 

off and off again..bile nak on nie??

The thing is..i am not yet mastered the self-controlling skill...

People said that there were several phases in surviving from break ups..i said, yes, there is such a thing..some people may not realize that they are going thru that phases, which brought them in denial..but for me..yes, i believe in such thing..so, i googled..and in found these..

Seven (7) phases in recovering from break-ups - by i dont know who the hell the writer is..

1. Denial
You are not believe and will not believe that that the relationship is no good for her. As a human it is normal to fear loss, which is why sometimes many of us stick to the same person or same routine because it is safe and reliable, even if it is hurting you and causing you to stay stuck in a rut. No matter how many people advise you to let go of this friendship that is sucking the life out of you, you refuses to. You are in denial to assess the real situation of the relationship. But not for long.

2. Blame & Loss
Time is a great friend to many of us. With time, people’s flaws start to show and the recipient does not stay so patient as before. A few months later you will starts to decide for yourself that your partner is actually no good for you and this is when the friendship officially breaks up. In the place of the relationship you had for so long, you will now feels loss, which hurts like crazy. And so the blaming begins. You'll blames your ex for being a user. You'll blames yourself for being so gullible. You'll blames the world if need be, while grieving over the loss of something that you thought would always be true and beautiful.

3. Acceptance
You'll starts to accept what has happened and the blaming decreases. The feeling of loss is still there, but it does not hurt as much. You'll believes this happened for a reason and starts to assess the situation logically.

4. Re-bound
You'll eventually meet new people which will be the re-bound subject. Though you have accepted what has happened to be fate, you'll still wants to replace that feeling of loss immediately. This may cause you to make some rash decisions on choosing future partner and you will definitely wake up with a relationship-hang-over if you're not careful.

5. Guilt & No Trust

Over with the re-bound phase, you'll start to feel guilty. Guilty over having a re-bound phase, feeling guilty because you told your ex so many things you shouldn’t have said, guilty because you think you could have handled the situation a lot better.

With the guilt comes the sense of not being able to trust anyone. You have been hurt and feels wary when approaching new relationships, scared that the same whirlpool will come suck you into a breakup. You're still hurting and needs time alone to heal the wounds so that you are fully prepared for a new relationship.

6. Healing

This may take a few weeks to a few months, lasting a year if the initial damage was quite bad. The healing stage gives you plenty of time to forgive those who let you down, to forgive yourself. Without interruptions from new relationships, you need to focus on your own personal development, both spiritually, mentally and physically. You need to regain your confidence and love yourself again. You need to be able to trust yourself and not fear your own decision making. You also needs to know that you worth so much more than getting yourself into lousy relationships. You value your self-worth and makes a pact to be true to yourself always.

7. Moving on

The final phase happens when you'll feel you are over the hurt of the past. You can look at it with your mind and not your heart and emotions. You'll be well and truly over it and understands it was a hard lesson you had to take which has passed. You are now ready to move on into the future whilst bearing in mind the lessons you've learnt so as not to repeat any mistakes. You have recovered and knows if you ever saw your ex you will treat them with indifference because they cannot hurt you anymore. The past is in the past now. And the future is bright.

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Truthfully, i am not sure which phase i am now. I am too involved and do things super fast when connecting with the opposite gender even though i knew that he is not a good prospect non-so-ever.  I loss my focus on work and my life. All i wanted is to fill in the emptiness.  Indeed!

I really need to drag myself out of this situation cause i dont want a relationship-hang-over. Dun think can survive another relationship being damaged. Going into a relationship now is really a bad idea.

So, i need to stay focus on achieving my goals. Really need the focus!

Despite of that, i had a blast Raya Haji celebration with family and friends. We had our family berbeque dinner..an adhoc one..but somehow..me, angah and mama manage to keep it together fantastic dishes with the help from few of my cousin..we had marinated chicken, ikan cencaru, sotong, lamb, and also the main dish and side dish; spaghetti, potato salad, Vietnamese salad and chips...good work everybody...kalau camni punye kerjasama, hari2 buat bbq pon takpe..hehe..

Gamba celebration? haha..xder..nnti i curik dari camera sepupu2 i yg ade hari tu...hehe..

OK now! Get up and go to work! Focus, focus, focus!

Damn Annoying!!

Hah..seperti tajuknyelah..there are few types of people that annoys me to the max..

A) The type of people when someone asked, they will, with corker face, answered "Adeeellaaaahhh..." even its just a mere question where the questioner solely has consecrated intention to get information on something. This type of answer is well-known as statement "Bajet Artis". Moreover, this person themselves who started or at least ignite the conversation. Contohnye...si A cakap kat si B "Ko tauuu..semalam aku pegi romantic dinner..." Pastu si B ni pon tanyelah balik (sekadar nak bagi tindak balas dan nak jaga hati) "Yeke besnyee..dengan sape?"..si A jawab balik "...adeeelllaaahhh..." Hah..memang nak kene penyepak laju2..eh..tadi kau yang nak cerita sangat kan? Alih2 tanye tanak jawab plak..hah..bajet anda artis popular lagi cantik setangding Taylor Switft. Wat de ef! 

B) People who doesn't have the clue who they actually are. They don't have their own passion, they own preference, their own likes and dislike. This type of people just simply copy cat someone else's preference. Ok, this one is quite subjective...maybe A likes what B liked..maybe they are COINCIDENTALLY like the same thing. But, if this person keep like what you liked or keep doing what you did, isnt that a bit annoying. Yeah, maybe some people will feel proud or something being someone's idol, but isnt it disturbing just knowing that your every move is being copy catted? Ok, maybe ko rase perasan org tu ikut semua benda yang kau buat, tapi bila orang keliling kau dah tegur, isnt that something? Hah, pikirkan.

C) People who acted like 13 years old girl when they are actually thirty...i repeat...THIRTY! Yes, this type yang senang benau nak merajuk, butthurts, lepas tu tanak tegur org ramai dan buat muka dengan harapan akan ade orang datang dan tanye "You..you kenape??" dan dia akan terus menangis 8 baldi air mata atau tarik muka 18jengkal. Ade macam attention seeker sket pon ade. You know, like small kids, they will do almost anything, crying, screaming to get our attention. Yep, this type of person not so different from the small kids. Plus, perkara yang perlu dirajukkan itu bukanlah seberapa sangat..its just org nak gurau baling ular getah depan muka dia yang mengakibatkan terkeluar jeritan ala maknyah..itu je..perlulah kau merajuk sampai sebulan kan..and..kalau org dah mintak maaf tu, xpayah lah nak merajuk sampai 6 bulan..ape lg kau nak? Jongkong emas?! Heh! Dannn..when people around him/her making adults jokes, he/she will show his/her disgusted face ditambah lagi dengan perilaku jungkit2 bahu buat sign nak muntah..adus..come on la..kalau xnak dengar cool jokes camtu, sila lepak dengan budak skolah rendah!

Ha..stakat nie je la dulu..nnti teringat lagi tulis lagi..ade banyak ni sebenanye..haha..ni bukan sbb anggap diri perfect, tapi, cuba mengaku, org2 begini mmg akan buat anda annoy jugak kan?

Good Laugh on Friday!!

Saje nak bagi korang gelak2 sket pade hari jumaat nan indah ini..

Korang x gelak gak tgk video2 ni?? Perghhh...seriously..u need to see a psychologist..or a nerve doctor coz maybe there's something wrong with your 'laughing' nerve..haha..

p.s: Korg mesti wonder kan..bile la aku nak update pasal goldcoast..asek wat entry mengarut jee...kan? kan? ok, i'll update if i have time and mood ok?

The power of reading

Now i realize the power of reading

Not just providing you with loads of information and knowledge but also sharpen your skill to write. Yes, i would say that everybody has ideas and thought, i good one, or even the highly-intellect-one-and-only one, indeed. But, not everybody have the ability or skill to devote their ideas in editorial way. This, i found it by experimenting myself, is due to lack of reading which resulted in lack of vocab, and incapable to combine simple but strong words to form a beautiful and meaningful sentences.

Yes, i'm not a reader. Don't have the passion to read. Do not have or deliberately not having the intention to spend my time and literally picks up a book and read it from skin to skin. I dont buy books or daily newspapers or even magazines (but i do lend them from colleagues or friends sometimes - not that im not read at all!)

When it comes to surfing the internet, I prefers surfing webs with pictures or videos and intentionally ignored words scrapping around the page. I dont read comments in Youtube. I barely visits wikipedia (duh!) or read reviews on hotel rooms or vacation packages. I enjoy looking at pictures or videos or flash vid or what not and making my judgement out of it. Like, when i was surfing the tripadvisor and came across with a picture of extremely beautiful interior 5-star-look-like hotel room, i would straight away think the place is awesome without reading the reviews from the other travelers which might provides me other important information like their services or cleanliness what-so-ever. This bad bad habit leaves me in vain when i would ended up in a crappy and not-worthy hotel room. It sucks!

However, recently, yep, recently when i started to have loads of time of my own, unlike of the old me who are so clingy with that dumb-ass-dude, i have started to have a new interest. I like to read now and i found it very amusing. At least, i am trying my hardest now to foster this new interest, which i found very beneficial, not only for me but also people around me (considering myself a tell-all-your-heart-out-to-people-around-you kind of girl) when i like to share reading materials that i found interesting.

Oddly, few weeks ago, i found myself in a book store (which only happens once in a blue moon, since i prefer to spend my money on clothes rather than books). And i was, successfully, paid over one hundred bugs for 4 new books. It is a big step. And i am proud of myself for that. Plus, its a self-help books. More reason to be proud of myself. haha.

I am always amazed by bloggers who can write well, who are successfully melting the reader's heart or making them smile and bring happiness or releasing them from work stress. Now i know their secret. You just need to spend an adequate amount of your time in a day to sit back and read things. Things that contented, meaningful and beneficial to you. Things that impliedly have impact on your daily life. Things that ignite your curiosity. Things that make your brain moves. Things that adding new stuff in your pot of knowledge. Things that make u think more. Without reading, you wont have the material to write. Or worse, you would never know how to spill out your feelings or tell others your thoughts in editorial way.

But wait, i was a reader during my teenage years. I did read lots of novels back then. At least i did read something. But i cant recall when i did stopped reading. It might be during my college years when i had all awesome friends and all i do is just simply hangouts and gossiping about all stuff. Its not bad after all, we were sharing thought that time but it was limited to how we feels and nothing about general knowledge.

Yeah, but i changed. At least, have the intention to change. Wait, no! I need to change. Literally do the changes, not only having the intention. To a better person who love to read. I want to be the one who walks the walk.

Semoga saya dapat lebih banyak pengetahuan lepas ni..jadi azam baru saya adalah untuk beli lebih banyak buku berguna...amiiinn...

Blog Encik Kahuna

Sebelum terlupa...i really need to do this entry...

Lately, i do lots of blog-walking..one blog brings me to another..and within the journey, i meet up with one particular interesting blog...and it's here..

Read it yourself....and let me remind you to read it thoroughly before making any judgement (well, if u want to make one!)

Somehow, this one particular entry really attracts me...cant keep myself from agreeing with this one..read it woman! you'll find yourself how fortunate you are to have such a chance to evolve in professional world here in Malaysia...

Wanita - by Kahuna

Aku rasa minggu lepas adalah minggu paling menarik dalam hidup aku. Ye, paling menarik dalam tempoh 22 taun aku hidup, mengalahkan segala-gala pengalaman hidup aku selama ni.


Kenape?


Okey kalau nak terangkan memang at least kene lapan jam depan komputer. Jadi aku bagi beberapa butir maklumat sudah. Seperti yang diumumkan beberapa bulan lepas, aku dijemput menghadiri health conference kat Norway selama 10 hari. Para tetamu yang dijemput berucap dalam majlis tersebut adalah putera raja Norway dan bini beliau, menteri luar negeri Norway, aktivis gypsy dari Croatia, pakar etnologi dari US, pakar statistik tersohor dunia (Prof Hans Rosling), dan paling penting, bekas menteri hal ehwal wanita dan timbalan perdana menteri Afghanistan, Dr. Sima Samar. Beliau adalah seorang wanita feminis, tak pakai tudung, dan berpendidikan tinggi. Semua ciri berikut memang melayakkan beliau menjadi kambing korban dalam majlis aqiqah Taliban. 


Dan aku dapat berbual dengan beliau. Sejak-sejak buku Khalid Hosseini pasal Afghanistan di bawah payung Taliban, dan bagaimana hidup masyarakat Afghanistan yang sangat patriarchal di mana pompuan memang dilayan seperti hamba yang tak patut dibagi pendidikan sebab bile umur 13 dah kene kawin, memang aku sangat tertarik macam mana wanita macam Dr Sima Samar ni boleh wujud. Dengan bantuan kerajaan Norway, die boleh bukak sekolah untuk pompuan kat Afghanistan, walaupun diugut oleh Taliban. FYI, ni bukan kat sekolah rendah di mane kalau ko kene ugut, paling-paling busuk pun budak tu pancitkan tayar beskal ko je. Dengan Taliban, kalau die ugut, ko wajib takut sebab ini bermakna memang jarak kau dan malaikat Izrail hanyelah sekangkang cencurut.


Kitorang berbincang pasal banyak topik, antaranya adelah topik perbezaan pendidikan di kalangan wanita Afghanistan dan Malaysia. Situasi yang sangat berbeza, tapi ade persamaan. Kalau kat Afghanistan, pompuan tak dibenarkan belajar walaupun diorang nak gile babi. Lepas akil baligh akan dikawinkan dengan saudagar minyak atar (kat sane kire kaya la tu) berumur 80 taun yang miang keladi sedangkan benda yang masih boleh menegak pada badan beliau hanyelah ibu jari.


Kat Malaysia pulak, kateku dengan yakin, pompuan dibenarkan belajar sampai ke bulan tanpa sekatan, malahan kat universiti lagi ramai pompuan daripada laki. Tapi lepas ade degree, master atau PhD, banyak yang mengambik keputusan untuk berenti keje dan membantu suami yang tercinta untuk membesarkan keluarga, sedangkan kebijaksanaan wanita kat Malaysia kalau dieksploitasi dengan baik memang boleh menyebabkan pembangunan yang lebih pesat. Dan aku mengeluarkan ayat kontroversi yang menyebabkan aku jadi popular sekejap kat conference tersebut, yang berbunyi : "How do we solve the problem of overqualified housewives in countries like Malaysia?"

Jawapan beliau : "I'm pro-choice, and I think if it is their choice to be housewives, then they should do whatever they want."


Persoalannye adelah, adekah itu pilihan mereka? Atau adekah itu keputusan yang diambik atas tekanan sekeliling? Sorang minah ni cakap kat aku, "Pompuan tau yang lelaki takkan berenti keje untuk jaga anak. Maka pompuan la yang kene buat, kerana kami lebih matang dan lebih bersikap keibuan." Duhh, memangla pompuan yang kene bersikap keibuan. Kalau aku nampak bapak tetibe nak menetek anak, lari tak cukup tanah aku jawabnye.


Masalahnya, kenapa kene ade orang yang berenti keje? Mak bapak aku keje, tapi aku elok je membesar dengan riang ria. Takde plak aku pegi isap gam belakang pondok jaga sekolah.


Maka persoalan aku dibiar terumbang-ambing, seperti perahu tak berpengemudi. Karam tidak, bergerak pun tidak. Ruangan komen dibukak untuk diskusi.


p/s : Eh tetibe aku tak reti nak ektivet balik komen. Maka takde komen la nampaknye. Heh.

I like what i read..and when i like it i'll share it with everyone who read this blog to share the awesomeness and power of an editorial piece ~ how it'll bring emotions to you...you're feeling aite, woman?!

So, as far as im concerned, i am a career-oriented person, and proud of it!

p.s: Thank you very much Mr Kahuna for sharing this info and letting me copy and paste kat blog sendiri.... thank you..thank you..thank you dude!

Dead Sea vs The Sea of Galilee

Salam to all..

I terpanggil untuk copy and paste an email been forwarded by my fellow colleague...it's an interesting piece..

Baca dengan teliti dan hayati nya..

Why it is called "Dead Sea?" - Author : Unknown        

Sitting in the Geography class in school, I remember how fascinated I was when we were being taught all about the Dead Sea. As you probably recall,the Dead Sea is really a Lake, not a sea!

Its so high in salt content that the human body can float easily. You can almost lie down and read a book! The salt in the Dead Sea is as high as 35% - almost 10 times the normal ocean water. And all that saltiness has meant that there is no life at all in the Dead Sea. No fish. No vegetation. No sea animals. Nothing lives in the Dead Sea.                                                                                                       

And hence the name: "Dead Sea".

While the Dead Sea has remained etched in my memory, I don't seem to recall learning about the Sea of Galilee in my school Geography lesson. So when I heard about the Sea of Galilee and the Dead Sea and the tale of the two seas - I was intrigued. Turns out that the Sea of Galilee is just north of the Dead Sea. Both the Sea of Galilee and the Dead Sea receive their water from River Jordan. And yet, they are very, very different.          

Unlike the Dead Sea, the Sea of Galilee is pretty, resplendent with rich, colorful marine life. There are lots of plants. And lots of fish too. In fact, the sea of Galilee is home to over twenty different types fishes.

Same region, same source of water, and yet while one sea is full of life, the other is dead.

Why?

Here apparently is why. The River Jordan flows into the Sea of Galilee and then flows out. The water simply passes through the Sea of Galilee in and then out - and that keeps the Sea healthy and vibrant, rich with marine life.

But the Dead Sea is far below the mean sea level, that it has no outlet. The water flows in from the River Jordan, but it does not flow out as there are no outlet streams. It is estimated that over a million tons of water evaporated from the Dead Sea every day. Leaving it salty. Too full of minerals. And unfit for any marine life.

The Dead Sea takes water from the River Jordan, and holds it. It does not give. Result? No life at all!..                              

Food for Thoughts:

Life is not just about getting. It's about giving. We all need to learn from the Sea of Galilee.

We are fortunate to get wealth, knowledge, love and respect. But if we don't learn to give, we could all end up like the Dead Sea. The love and the respect, the wealth and the knowledge could all evaporate. Like the water in the Dead Sea.

If we keep the Dead Sea mentality of merely taking in more and more water, more money, more of everything, the results are obviously disastrous.

To make sure that we are living in the sea of our own life, we must have outlets, and many outlets!

For love and wealth - and everything else that we get in our life, we make sure we don't just get, we give too. Open the taps. And we'll open the floodgates to joy and happiness. Make that a conscious habit. To share is to give.

Similarly, communication is also a flow between two or more parties, and if one just receive and do not give, it eventually become a Dead Sea.

  
So, what a thought kan? Hopefully we can see ourselves as The Sea of Galilee as life is just a loan from God. A loan to share.


A bit about history of Dead Sea (as mentioned by one of my colleague as well)

Dead Sea tu ialah lapisan bumi yang telah diterlangkupkan oleh Jibrail a.s. atas perintah Allah s.w.t. terhadap kaum Nabi Lut a.s. Dead Sea menjadi suatu tempat yang dilaknat Allah sehingga hari kiamat sebagaimana yang Nabi Mohd saw nukilkan. Sebab itulah tiada makhluk Allah seperti ikan dan tumbuh2an yang mahu tinggal di Dead Sea tersebut….

Sama2 lah kita muhasabah diri..